What does it feel to meet a stranger, talk one night long and probably never meet the person again? Liberating, strange, awkward? I think the more you travel the more you are able to talk with strangers. It is something that grows naturally because the awkwardness of being quite is tiresome, although sometimes you prefer to watch the scenery and let your mind wondering by its own.
I've been fascinating by stranger for quite sometime by now. I like the idea of sharing my worries with someone who does not know but are willing to listen because we shared the same value as human. Probably, that's one of the reasons why I end up being a journalist, because I want every voice to be listened. Everyone has their own story and judging someone based on your own value is not fair, because they have different histories than you.
So if I don't go beyond sharing everyday's routine, is it because of I am afraid he won't be a stranger anymore, too close for my introvert world, of loosing him because he does not feel the same way as I do, or because of our life seems very far apart?
Tuesday, November 27, 2018
Wednesday, November 14, 2018
Style
One of the things that makes a relation last is compatibility in style. Style has nothing to do with good or bad, but rather on things that make you comfortable and how these things affect other people around you.
In the new place, I am responsible to manage people and the most comfortable thing to do is by observing and asking my colleagues on what do they think are the best way. Maybe this method is not quite as efficient as a more distance, bossy method, but for a longer term I like to gain people's trust through my knowledge (and if this does not work, it means I am not the right person for that position). Maybe one of my weaknesses is to keep something that is dear to me because I believe destiny will lead me the way. I don't know.
The same thing goes for private relationship. I like to build a routine first, to get use to the other person's routine, to care for someone before falling. I guess now I am start to get use to with his text and stories. I start to worry when I don't get any news from him on a daily basis. This kind of pace suits my style rather than people who says they like me without even know me. But again, there are many things running on my mind.
In the new place, I am responsible to manage people and the most comfortable thing to do is by observing and asking my colleagues on what do they think are the best way. Maybe this method is not quite as efficient as a more distance, bossy method, but for a longer term I like to gain people's trust through my knowledge (and if this does not work, it means I am not the right person for that position). Maybe one of my weaknesses is to keep something that is dear to me because I believe destiny will lead me the way. I don't know.
The same thing goes for private relationship. I like to build a routine first, to get use to the other person's routine, to care for someone before falling. I guess now I am start to get use to with his text and stories. I start to worry when I don't get any news from him on a daily basis. This kind of pace suits my style rather than people who says they like me without even know me. But again, there are many things running on my mind.
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