Introvert

Is it legal to be an introvert in Indonesia? When things go wrong, people use to say 'please be more considerate, maybe the person has a problem' or 'you have to understand people better.' Why is it always about pleasing others for the sake of being polite or being younger? Sometimes I am just so freaking tired of the pretending collective community, while in the reality it is mostly about 'look at me' and 'please like my post.' In certain degree, it fits me well since most people like to talk about themselves rather than listening and thus, it is easy to be invisible. But sometimes I miss being asked about what I want or what I think.