Sometimes not meant to be means that both of you share the same attraction but the timing is not right. You are attached to a commitment you cannot break easily and the other one could not adjust the timing for your own sake since it attached to his network as well. Your intersection with one another leave an understanding of you don't belong together despite the instant attraction. But this is life, you cannot always get what you want (or I simply over thinking things) and sometimes commitment is better than attraction. You can get bored with something but what makes things run is your commitment.
Attraction and the right moment appear at any scale of life. This time is about work, some other time, it may be about a person. Things are meant to be when every thing falls on the right moment. If it is a human relationship, meant to be refers to sharing the same stage of life. Each of you wants the same thing and places it as their priority. If it is work related, the moment appears in front you when you are not attached to another commitment.
"But if you really want it, why not fight for it? Negotiate?"
If every thing can be negotiated, what does it leave for credibility? How do you want people to recognize you? An opportunist, an unreliable person? Even when people let things slide, how do you see yourself?
I think growing up means you have to be accountable to your decision.
And it's bloody difficult!!
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