I got my brain back, so my writing speed increased to 300 percent (and yeah, deadline!). This whole episode of falling in love and falling out of love made me wondering how someone can create a relationship after college? I used to start a relationship with friendship. But after college the situation became a bit complicated since my environment was mostly married people. So how to create a comfort level and trust with somebody you just know? What is love, really?
As an analytic person, I Googled, how to fall in love and I found a research on how strangers fall in love through 36 questions and starring each other's eyes for 4 minutes straight. I don't think I will have the courage to do that though. As an introvert, the most natural interaction for me is meet in person with family, colleagues and friends. My comfort zone. The second natural thing is text since it allows me to keep distance. Only when I start to become comfortable I can do phone or video call. Even I did my complaints to company through email and text 😅 I am so bad with people! Although the irony is that I work as a social scientist, so during fieldwork I have to meet new people on regular basis.
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